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What Changes are in Store for you in 2014?

2013 has come and gone. Did I achieve everything I hoped to?
No, not at all…. however I could beat myself up or I could move on….
It is a choice we all have and I have to admit that, until now, I have generally ‘chosen’ to remain stuck in the past, wallowing in certain pain that I felt justified to feel.

It is almost a year since I set up this website, with a focus on CHANGE!

My aim was to create the changes in my life that I wanted to see and thereby help others to see that change IS possible. I would get a spark of confidence and lots of amazing ideas flying around in my head, but as soon as I sat down to write they flew away and the negativity and self-doubt barged back in!

2013 was a cathartic year for me in many ways. I joined an online support network* to work through a great deal of buried pain surrounding my childlessness. I thought I was ‘over it’ but once I joined this group I realized that, for the most part, I had just pushed it deep, deep down, where I thought it could no longer hurt me. The sharing within the group made me intimately aware of my unrequited grief and just how much power I was giving to the pain I was feeling. I was using it as an excuse NOT to move forward and make the changes in my life, which would serve me better and allow me to accept exactly where I am right now, in this very moment, and appreciate it wholeheartedly.

Without that acceptance and appreciation, it is almost impossible to function in a healthy, positive way. As a consequence I held back from writing blog posts on this website and also shied away from many social networking situations. Thus the self-fulfilling prophecy or, as it is called in ‘The Secret’ amongst other books, the Law of Attraction, was working exactly how it was meant to. Despite reaching out from time to time and baring my soul, I often received no acknowledgement or no response, thus building my case against my self, that I really do have no confidence, I really am NO GOOD, I am not worthy, etc etc etc & blah blah blah! What I ignored were the wonderful responses and connections that I did have. I was so busy focusing on the ones I didn’t have, SO 2014 I am on a mission to CHANGE my whole mindset and focus on the positive and the here and now.

I welcome you to join with me on this path and look forward to meeting & sharing with you.

* For those women, who remain Childless NOT by choice, I am sure you will find incredible love and support within the amazing group of women that Jody Day has brought together from around the world in her Gateway Women community.

Finally, I would like to share the following 2 amazing sources for inspirational products & webinars, which can help you to achieve the changes you are looking for.

Hay House Publications  – the international leader in inspirational and self-help publishing:HH Logo Header - Design

The Tapping Solution:


What is EFT Tapping?

I have had some feedback asking for more clarification on what Tapping actually is.

As I am new to Tapping myself, I hope that my understanding of it resonates with those of you who are more familiar with it than me. I welcome your interpretations.

But for me I see Tapping as a combination of many of the transformational tools that I have worked with over the years.

It brings together positive affirmations (Louise Hay), Law of Attraction (The Secret etc), Neuro-linguistic programming techniques such as re-framing negative, limiting beliefs into more positive useful beliefs,  Brandon Bay’s Journey work (finding areas of pain/ emotion in the body that could be linked to an old memory to heal at the cellular level) and acupressure (meridian therapy).
Whilst tapping on the acupressure points we initially acknowledge our limiting beliefs, physical pains, negative emotions, then release them.
What I love most about it is that it brings together all of these techniques & ties them in with the more scientific approach of using the acupressure points. I like the fact that many of the ‘gurus’ whose work I have studied over the years are staunch advocates of Tapping – many of the masters from The Secret (did you see the movie of The Secret?), also Louise Hay, Wayne Dyer & other experts, plus people from the medical & scientific field.
It is scientifically proven, quick & simple…. AND best of all you can do it by yourself! This is a BIG bonus for me, with my lifestyle, which often prevents me from being able to work with other people, whether professionally or informally.
For example, I I love the Journey work, but it is SO much easier to do with someone walking you through the ‘script’ than to try & follow it on your own.
You can find out more information from The Tapping Solution website here

Tapping World Summit Video Series - Nick Ortner